50 Reasons To Have Sex Pt 2

I asked a group of male friends why they had sex, and this is what they came up with. These are in no way my opinions, but I still find it hilarious. Here's the link to PART 1

11. Someone Bet You Couldn't Do It
12. Revenge on Them or Significant Other
13. Cuz They Heard She Was A Hoe
14. Cuz They Are Drunk
15. Cuz She's Drunk
16. Cuz They Are High
17. Cuz She's High
18. Cuz They Can
19. Cuz She wants To
20. Why Not?

Guest Blogger Tells Us His 10 Reasons To Have Sex

I'm being really lazy and I am definitely gon post Pt 2 in the next couple of days, but my home skillet from Speech Is My Hammer kicked to me his 10 reasons he believes he has sex. After you read definitely go swing by his spot and check him out!

1. Bragging writes. To be able to say that you were able to use your assets/game to get a girl to fuck/suck/whatever and be telling the truth is a good feeling. (One of my niggas has girls on his buddy list that he's about to beat out, and the buddy list category is named "Conquests." Think about it.)
2. Cuz you're bored.
3. For exercise. Burns madd calories.
4. To convince yourself—and others, and her—that you've still got it. That confidence can carry on to other areas of your life, and just have you feeling good in general.
5. To keep shorty on lock. Sometimes, givin' her quality D is all you need to keep her there.
6. To not wonder "what if." Sometimes, when a girl is super, duper fine and you DON'T fuck wit her when you have the green light, you feel weird as fuck after not taking advantage of the opportunity.
7. To have sex with other women. Having sex with one woman and getting a GDR—Good Dick Report—will increase your value and ability to have sex with other women.
8. To avoid blue balls. Shit sucks.
9. Cuz the head wasn't enough. You don't only read the prequel or the first three chapters of a book, right? ... Unless those were the best three chapters of your life, which happens.
10. To have children? lmao

50 Reasons To Have Sex Pt. 1

I was watching this show call How I Met Your Mother, and they had this episode on finding 50 reasons people have sex. So I decided to ask my male friends to do the same thing. These are the first ten, and I'll keep posting them throughout the week. DISCLAIMER: I didnt come up with ANY of these responses, but i find them all hilarious. Dont be mad at me if u find something offensive. Just change the channel. Holla!

1. There is stuff that comes out of the penis and it makes men feel good.

No brainer.

2. To do the Dougie: Reference: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vyUdZMkWw_M

I didn't get this one, but who really understands half of the logic guys use so I digress.

3. To do the Heisman: Reference: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rFw8-5WljI8

I don't know what it is with guys and dancing on women during sex.

4. Dougie/Heisman Combo

Come on! Really ?!?

5. Like Being Rode By A Girl

I guess......

6. They like the sounds a vagina makes (My gay co-worker's favorite)

This one makes me laugh on the inside.

7. Sex Can Be Used As Commerce

True...

8. He likes to be called daddy during, but partner can't be sired from genitalia

Now, these are exact quotes. Just letting yall know.

9. It's easier to ask for head afterwards.

Shaking my head at this point.

10. Blackmail

lol

I got four more posts to go, so I'll try my best to put the rest up

Random Thoughts #2 (Very Embarrasing)

if i could eat popeye's chicken everyday, i would be the happiest person on earth

i can sing circles around most female singers out right now, but u would never know cuz im too shy

i have been on a wedding kick for the past three weeks.

i dont wanna get married but i will find a poor schmuck who's willing to let me do what i want

when im home alone, im always scared that the saw guy is gon come get me

i got a thing for pudgy dudes

i almost went to the air force but my grandma didnt want me to go so i didnt

i was so into the backstreet boys/nsync era and i still am

i avoid conflict at all costs

im embarrassed by the last couple of folk who broke my heart

i own dresses i just dont wear them

im very into fashion and different designers like oscar de la renta and herve leger

i had a full ride to howard but i lost it tryna go to the air force

i dont like taking pictures at all

i like white boys

im always hungry

Throwback of The Day: Sugar Hill Gang-Jump On It

Probably one of the most memorable scenes in TV history,this has to be one of my favorite episodes of Fresh Prince.

After You've Done All You Can, You Just Stand: Donnie McClurken-Stand

Man, this Thanksgiving was very interesting. I don't talk too much about my family other than my sisters, becuz of the feelings that it erupts in me. But right now, I honestly don't know what to do.

I got a 16 year old sister who wants to be an adult. I also have a ten year old sister who is so misunderstood to the point where she doesnt't feel welcomed in her own home. And a mother who after almost 22 years of motherhood still hasn't gotten the hang of it at all.

I try my best to keep it all together while keeping my sanity, but it seems like an impossible task. So is it selfish of me to choose me?

I'm not the most mentally stable role model for them, but the only thing I know to do is stand for them. Even if they don't want me to.

LOL....Just Randomness

Excuse Me, I Just find this Hilarious

Charles Barkley's Quote of The Day

“If you go out with a girl and they say she has a great personality, she’s ugly. If they tell you a guy works hard, he can’t play a lick. Same thing.”

Throwback of the Day: Christion-Full of Smoke

They were signed to Rocafella around the early 90's I believe, and I remember hearing this song when I was younger with my older cousins as we rode around the hood.

My Last Obama Post

I just couldn't resist posting this when I saw it!

Random Rant Post #1

- Is there something wrong with being insecure?

- I feel like at 21 I'm no where in my life that I feel i should be

- Im also scared that God's plan for me will take me somewhere i dont wanna go

- i hate my hair its too much

- being in a bar full of white people drunk make me uncomfortable

- i need a successful relationship with a person, just one, before i die

- i dont know if i ever will be able to be a singer

- thank god im not pregnant

- is it too much to ask for just a piece of your time

- i am in extreme pain right now but im at work

- and about this job, am i stuck here forever

- i feel like a brat when i look at this list and realize so many others have been thru worst

Beyonce's New Album

I Am....Sasha Fierce

Track List
----------
Disc 1:
01. If I Were a Boy 4:09
02. Halo 4:25
03. Disappear 4:29
04. Broken-Hearted Girl 4:38
05. Ave Maria 3:42
06. Satellites 3:07

Disc 2:
01. Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It) 3:12
02. Radio 3:39
03. Diva 3:21
04. Sweet Dreams 3:28
05. Video Phone 3:36

I get the whole Sasha Fierce thing, but didn't the two personalities thing play out wit TI vs. TIP. I'm just sayin.........

I's On Twitter Now!

My co-worker put me up on Twitter and I kinda like it. I need people to follow. If u on Twitter drop ur name so I can follow u (in a non creepy stalker type way).

www.twitter.com/thalyracist

So cute!!!!!

Bout Time......

Click To Enlarge

I Think I'm Pregnant

........

(sigh)

........

Revolutionary Suicide

The autobiography by Huey P. Newton is slated to be re-issued next year. I'm getting me a copy since I can't find one in Detroit.

I Got A Migraine

Ugh

Obama Loves The Kids

Yesterday Was My Birthday....

.......and I'm still drunk!!!!!!!!

Pics coming soon....

To give u a taste...

If Mos Def Was President

birthday is tomorrow!!!

Happy Birthday Darrius!!!!!

http://darriusmind.blogspot.com/

Jiva featuring the AV CLUB

Nike SB Blazer x Lance Mountain

Still In A Sour Mood

Y'all pray for me

My Phone Broke

I'm in a very sour mood. Can't wait til mah birthday. 13 Mo Dayz!

My Charles Barkley Quote For The Day

"You got to believe in yourself. Hell, I believe I'm the best-looking guy in the world and I might be right."

Kanye West-Love Lockdown

Not Enough For Himself

It's This Article I Read And I'm Really Feeling It. It's Definitely Worth The Read

http://clutchmagonline.com/lifeculture/feature/not-enough-for-himself/

Not Enough for Himself...

I recently ended a short relationship with a guy who was not living to his full potential. This guy is handsome, thoughtful, intimate, kind and very sexy. Brought me flowers and rubbed my feet. Kissed me passionately and knew my every move. Every time we were together, my attraction grew more and more but it suddenly began to fade once the infatuation wore off and reality kicked in. While in the process of my looking for a teaching position we began to spend almost every moment with each other. We were either out and about or lying around at my home talking. We have many things in common, our activities, our idiosyncrasies and some moments of our lives paralleled. He was into me as I he, and practically we were a couple. BUT there was something in me that would not allow myself to commit to him. He had no self-value and no matter how I tried to explain it to him, he felt I was attacking his manhood and demoralizing his character and he would turn the conversation into why we had not had sex.

When my infatuation began to fade, I began to listen to him talk and was perturbed when he said that he knows a lot of people with degrees and had not seen anything great come from them. I questioned him on his future goals—he replied I plan to buy a house and married with at least two kids in the next two years. This would have sent my spirits flying five years ago, but instead it raised an eyebrow. He said nothing of how he was going to pay for the house, the wedding, the children. I asked him about career goals and he in turn asked me to share my 5-10 year plan in order to get a few ideas about how to answer the question. Red flag. Among other incidents that occurred, it was clear this thirty-two year old man’s priorities were not in order. He was not taking care of his life business and it was showing through his insecurities, lack of motivation and extreme sensitivity. His weaknesses were beginning to show or maybe they were already there and I just thought they were cute.

I asked a few of my male friends about this guy’s potential and if I should be cautious of getting close to him. Each of them asked the same questions:

1. What happened in his last relationship? Why did they really split?
2. What is his social life? Who are his friends and what do they do?
3. What is his relationship with his mother?

I found out his last girlfriend gave him an ultimatum to get his life together, even if that meant moving back to his mother’s home, or she’d leave. She had been carrying the both of them for over a year because he made little to no attempt to find a job worth having.

I noticed that he had little to no friends. Maybe six to be exact and one in particular he belittled every chance he had. When I finally met the guy, it was evident that he was merely a self-esteem friend and nothing more than the guy my guy could feel good around. My lover didn’t seem to have a solid circle of friends to uplift him, support him or simply release the day to day stress. Instead he fed them lies of his stability, living big and perfect relationships; all which doesn’t leave any reason for questions.

As for his mother . . . he never talked about her so it’s tough to know exactly how their relationship is. He lived at home until 27 as the good son who takes care of the house and loves his mama and may not have been asked to do more than what was needed. Transfer that to a relationship and you have a yes man who does what’s needed to keep the woman happy and oblivious to the nothings he does in the rest of the world. A mama’s boy without the skills to survive out in the real world who finds a mate who’s just like moms to continue his lifestyle.

Then it dawned on me; where there is he, there are a million just like him. Black men who do not have goals, nor ideas as to what the hell they will be doing at forty or fifty years old. I fear being with a man who does not take care of himself and are too prideful to acknowledge it. It is these same men who will tell a women their long term goal is to marry and have kids and buy a house without mention of a career or financial backing believing it will suffice women. It’s insulting to women. I am not speaking of all Black men, I am speaking of the men who are one paycheck away from being on the street and don’t see anything wrong with it. The men who are in their thirties and beyond, able-bodied and healthy, who does not push themselves. These are men who are not sure of themselves, their wants and needs and don’t see anything wrong with living day to day. These are the men who are afraid of tomorrow and believes deeply that he’ll still be doing the same thing he’s doing today if he doesn’t do find what it is he wants to do. Sadly he doesn’t know what that is. These are the men who have a thousand and one skills that make him experienced in any entry-level position but lack the education or capability to take on a management role. These are the men who choose to just be instead of just doing it. Maybe it’s a lack of nurturing at a young age, parental issues, self-esteem issues or just plain careless, but these men are in denial of living. Putting fliers on freeways in the middle of the night and calling yourself an independent promotions consultant is an example of denial.

Fellas must have more than penis, sperm and a ring when they come knocking on doors nowadays, because women have not only the vajayjay, circus tricks and exceptional felatio, we have degrees (plural), homes, bank accounts—savings, checking, money-markets, 401K’s, cars, businesses, we have responsibilities to take care of and a lifestyle to maintain so its only natural that we require the same of potential mates. I love my beautiful Kings and embrace them in all of their glory, but my lover’s list specifically states he must have at least what I have or is in the process of getting that and more. It is unfortunate that he has all of the physical qualities and attributes I requested but does not see value in himself to be a man I want to invest my time in. I could blame society, but it’s his individual effort. He has to want more for himself. I refuse to settle for someone who treats me good and doesn’t believe he’s worth the same love.

Self-love is a key factor in relationships. I’ve learned from this experience that I love myself so much more than I did five years ago, hell last year. It’s important to have inner strength because it makes sure that you do not limit yourself, you don’t settle even when the playing field seems to be overwhelming. We’re over and yes I miss his touch, his conversation, I miss his companionship, but I know that I am stronger for not trying to force it to work. Maybe he’ll get it one day, maybe he won’t but either way I’m a stronger person, a stronger woman and I am ok with my inner works still being in progress. Piece by piece I grow closer to my view of perfection.

Vh1's 100 Greatest Hip Hop Songs of All Time......

..is some straight up bullshit!!!!!!

If you watch that shit for longer than 30 mins, I no longer respect you as a hip hop head.

Who You Givin Your Voting Virginity To?

Tomorrow's A Big Day!!!

I have an audition with a producer tomorrow, and I'm really nervous. I hope that he picks me up as a singer/songwriter for his production company. He's a very well known producer so this might be my big chance! Pray for me!!

Nike SB Summer 2009: MY PICKS!!!

These are what I'll be waiting on next year praying the stores got some in GS sizes. There's more pics at the link below

Via Nike SB






PS. For those who are sneaker fans, have u noticed the surge of Nike iD ads online? Or am I just late?

Notorious Trailer

I think they just premiered it today! I am def going to see this. I wasn't a fan of the folks they chose in the beginning, but now seeing it makes me a believer.

Spike Lee Is The Shit!!!!

Welcome to MySpace: Spike Lee

Nike WMNS Air Troupe Mid

I feel a different way about these every time I see them. Currently, I'm loving them!

Via HypeBeast

My 21th Birthday

I'll be 21 on October 22nd. What should I do?

I Don't Wear Heels But......

I'll hurt my ankles to wear these...



http://www.net-a-porter.com/product/33439#

I Did It!

For those who have been keeping up wit my randomness, y'all would know that I have been take baby steps towards my goal of becoming a singer. Well, a couple of weeks, I performed at an open mic in Nashville. Now I hate the way I look, but to prove it, I brought pics. Plz don't laugh at me! The whole day I was cooped up in a lab watching the oxygenation in a person's brain thru an MRI. So I look worn out. But it was fun, and I received alot of love from the other artist there.

I sung "emotional rollercoaster" by vivian green.

Wise Dome- O.K. Yeah

This is a friend of mine's song, and he asked for me to put it on my blog for you guys opinion. So check it out, and be COMPLETELY honest. Thx!!!

And I got the pics from Nashville finally, but I'm too tired so I'll do it tomorrow.

My Summer...PT 1

Just Random Places and People I Saw

Inter-Faith Relationships?

Do they work? Could you see yourself in one?

UPDATE: An interfaith relationship is two folks who are dating but practicing different religions I.e. a Muslim and a Christian dating

Random Thought

I just Saw Ralph Tresvant (New Edition) and he looks like a straight up crackhead.

That is all.

Still looking for that damn cord.

Nike WMNS Blazer High-Elephant Capricorn

Via Nitrolicious. I need these in my life.

UPDATE: I Need These Too!







PS Still Can't find that cord

I Put On For......

I saw on someone's blog a list of things they "put on" for like the Young Jeezy song, and it made me think about what my list would be and I'm interested in what some of u put on for. So I'm gonna tag a couple of people to it, and see what u guys come up with!

I'm tagging:
Taryn B.
Kid.A
Karrie B.
Muze

I PUT ON FOR:
My City (of course!)Not the best pic but I took it



My Sisters

Shanice, 16 (Dis one the reason I'm getting my CCW)


Robyn, will be ten on the 24th(The Most Important Person In My Life Right Now)


My Music!



My Blog!!!!

All Those Who Blogging!!!!

All Y'all Who Out Here Following Your Dreams!!!!

My Struggling college students

Those who been taking care of themselves since the teenage years

My sneakers!!!

I'm running out of stuff, so I'll update as I think of it!


PS. Soon as I can find my USB cord, I'm gonna tell u guys about Nashville cuz you have to see the pics to believe!

I'm Taking A Va-Ca!

I'll be in Nashville for the next few days participating in this research study at Vanderbilt University. Hoe ass campus won't even let u on Facebook or Myspace!!!! I wish my laptop was fixed. :( But I know I'll have some crazy stories when I get bacl.

L8R!

I Gotta Make A Couple Of ShoutOuts!

K, mah bloggin twin has created a shirt that she's selling on her blog ShortyPop. They are super dope!!!! Click on the pic to check her out, and get a shirt or two!!!



Also, the sneaker store I intern for has been nominated for Best Men's Shoe Store. We are currently in second place, but we are behind 16%!!!! I need all of y'all help to make us number 1! You do have to register for the site, but we really need the exposure. Just click on the button to vote!!!!!!



L8R!!!!



***UPDATE 8/15/2008****

WE ARE NOW ONLY BEHIND BY 9%!!!! THANKS YOU GUYS SO MUCH AND KEEP VOTING!!!!!!

Ok Im A Punk! LOL

I went, and didn't sign up. I was too nervous! Ugh!

Meanwhile, look at mah new shoes!!!!!! Cute, right? That's REAL horse hairs.

Well, See...What Had Happened Was....

I went, but the cd player wasn't working, and I was too afraid to sing without the music, so I decided to wait until next week. I wasn't as nervous as I thought I was gonna be, and I'm looking forward to next week!

Random Photo Post #1

I'm so nervous! Tomorrow is the day is sing to the world!!! I have been practing like crazy, which is why i haven't posted in awhile but I do have tons of photos to show u all!

My Handy Dandy Backpack (I take it everywhere I go, even the clubs)



This Cutie Pie I Saw On The Bus (I Wanted To Talk To Him, But I Was Too Shy :( )




Everytime I Try And Get On This Particular Bus Route and This Guy Is Waiting With Me, The Bus is always at LEAST an hour late. I dedcided to take another one this day




The View Of DownTown Detroit Outside My Intern Window




What I Don't Wanna Be in 20 Years: 40 and Broke




L8R!!!!

One Week Away!!!!!!!

The open mic is exactly one week away from today, and I am already nervous!!!! I got down the songs I wanna sing , and I have been rehearsing alot.

Also, I got so may pics to show u guys but my phone isn't syncing with the computer, and it takes forever to email them one by one. So when i get everything up, yall will be the first to see!

Well, Since Taryn Did It.......

One Of My Fav Bloggers Taryn B. did it so I figured I'll do it too.

And I'm Tagging:
Muze
Luxury
-1-



The Rules:
a. Type your answer to each of the questions below into Flickr search.
b. Using only the first page, pick an image.
c. Copy and paste each of the URLs for the images into mosaic maker.

1. What is your first name? Shardonay
2. What is your favorite food? Fried Chicken
3. What high school did you go to? Ecorse High School
4. What is your favorite color? Pink
5. Who is your celebrity crush? Black Thought
6. Favorite drink? Sunkist
7. Dream vacation? Turks and Caicos
8. Favorite dessert? Coldstones Banana Split Decision
9. What you want to be when you grow up? Singer
10. What do you love most in life? Singing
11. One Word to describe you. Nerd
12. Your flickr name. Dont Got One, PhotoBucket all day!

Awww You Guys Really Love Me!!!!!

You guys have been so supportive and it makes a gal feel really special!!!

Now i just gotta find one-three songs to sing.


Possible Songs:

Like A Star- Corrine Bailey Rae

Floating-Megan Rochelle

Realize-Cobie Cobalt (sp?)

Radio-Deemi

Ready For Love-India Arie


I need more suggestions though so if you guys got anything for me, I'd appreciate it!!!!

Well I Have Decided What I Wanna Do......

I'm not gonna take the vocal lessons cuz right now I ain't got the guap...period.

BUT

I will be freelancing doing warm ups and things of that nature until I can come up with it.

AND

In a month, I plan on singing at an open mic here in Detroit. I only will do one song so that should be plenty of time for me to get myself ready. I wanna thank you all for the encouraging words, and if any of y'all are in the area, the support would be appreciated.

"Dreams are Real, All You Have To Do Is Just Believe"-Ashanti "Dreams"

Well, I have took a step forward towards my dreams of becoming a singer by signing up for vocal lessons. They are $80 bucks a month, and I go to the class every Friday. It's a group thing, which I'm kinda wary about, but its the cheapest class i could find. Now I really don't have the time nor really the money to take these classes. But I feel like if I don't take this chance, I'm not taking my dreams seriously. Maybe I'm just over thinking it.



I mean this is what I've wanted my entire life. Being logical, I'm in school, and I plan on having a degree to back me up, but I really can't see myself doing anything else but singing! I have to decide by Weds. on what I'm going to do. What should I do?


My Inspirations (in no particular order):

Lady Day


Anita Baker


Teena Marie


Raphael Saddiq


Erykay Badu


J Dilla


Quincy Jones


Jill Scott


Monica Blaire, She's a local artist here from Detroit and she is dope! Look her up!